"There’s nothing wrong with being an Asian woman." Agreed. "Agree with western-European woman’s feelings on that topic.
But…but they have no right to talk to Asian women or be Asian themselves? I mean, look at all those Asian American, Asian, and even Chinese girls dating white men! There are even Asian American women dating white men who wed them! How can we call ourselves "non-racially-speaking" if our only basis of race in the USA is a very broad category, such as "Asian"," Caucasian", "European", "American Indian", and so on.
Well, the fact is, those labels do not apply in every situation. If a person is only attracted to Asians, that doesn’t mean that they are only attracted to Asians! Further, there are plenty of white men who date Asians. So, why can’t Asian American women date white men?
It would certainly be easier for Asian girls if online dating websites allowed them to approach and chat with any man. But, that’s not the case. Only very small niche websites cater to this unique niche. Even the bigger ones are quite restricted in terms of who they will let inside their websites. Why is that?
Well, one reason is because of competition. The other reason, which ties into the first reason, is due to the quality of the members within the websites. If you look hard and long enough on any major dating site, you will see that the membership is extremely limited. There are dozens of guys out there who are trying to meet Asian women for casual dating or even for marriage. And the quality of the women that they have been absolutely horrible.
Let me tell you why. Asian women know how to date and are just as successful in picking out white men as any other race. The difference is that they are usually much more attractive than most Asian men. They come from a culture where beauty is revered. Their skin color is no exception. Therefore, if you’re a man, it will be very easy for you to attract Asian American women simply by being yourself.
But, that’s not going to happen if you are afraid of talking to Asian women. You see, the sad reality is that Asians get upset about things, it actually makes them less likely to hang out with you. When an Asian female sees her Caucasian male friend talking to her in a negative way, she will not want to be with him. It’s that simple. If you act like an Asian female doesn’t matter and treat her badly, she will simply move on to someone who treats her better.
This goes back to why so many people use online dating services: to find their life partners. You can do it without using an Asian dating service. But, you will have to spend some time on yourself. That means, you’ll have to learn how to treat Asian women. Fortunately, that does not take much time at all. Once you have been taught how, you will be able to talk to Asian women with confidence…and without getting upset.
Let’s talk about how to talk to Asian women in general for a moment. You see, when you go to an Asian dating site, you will be given a list of members to talk to. Each person in the chat room is separated by gender. So, while we are talking about the Asian dating site issue, I would like to point something out. When you go to an online dating service dedicated to Asian dating, there are Asian women who respond to your messages. Some of them even ask you out!
Now, let’s talk about online dating sites specifically. There are now many single Asian American women and men on these sites. While you could always sign up with a "specialist" site (that only accepts a certain number of people), many single guys find it much easier to join general "general" sites. These general sites often have chat rooms where you can talk to single Asian American women.
The reason that most Asian American men find it so hard to talk to single Asian American women on the Internet is because they think all Asian American women are like them. What is the worse thing that can happen? You might be told that you look "just like" your favorite white women. That is a major turn off! Why would any white girls want to date a black or Indian guy anyway?
So, just keep in mind. If you have been reading articles like this, you know that you don’t have to date Asian women if you don’t want to. There are plenty of beautiful white women out there who prefer not to date Asian guys. Why waste your time and effort on some type of undesirable encounter?